RE: My Dad...An Update

From: Sam Parthemer (srp@home.com)
Date: Fri Nov 16 2001 - 23:52:30 EST


David, I am sorry to hear about your father. It's tough to read, as
someday I'll be going through the same thing with my parents. I've
gone through it with my wife's relatives, and have come to know this.
Things happen for a reason, a big plan so to speak. These things are
out of our control, and will take their course (for good, or for worse,
as at least how we perceive worse). The people inflicted directly know
that you are worrying about them, and in some magical way they decide
whether to continue on and fight, or relax and move onto a better
place... It's tough being on the outside, having to endure the pain and
suffering for the one(s) you love. Your father's spirit will prevail.
ALWAYS remember the way he was, the good times, and he shall away be
with you.

Sam '00 RT

-----Original Message-----
From: owner-dakota-truck@buffnet.net
[mailto:owner-dakota-truck@buffnet.net] On Behalf Of David Digney
Sent: Friday, November 16, 2001 7:20 PM
To: dakota-truck@buffnet.net
Subject: DML: My Dad...An Update

The doctors did a 2nd CT(cat scan) yesterday.There is more swelling in
his
brain,and there is more blood clotting.He is also running a 100 degree
temp.My mom is going to have his life support turned off either tomorrow

night or on Sunday.I am really having a hard time coping.I am still in
shock.Everytime someone talks about my Dad,or i look at him all hooked
up to
the tubes,it makes me cry so damn hard.

Tomorrow,my 16 yr old daughter is going to see him for the first time.I
hope
she can handle it.

I thank everyone who has posted they were praying,or sent me direct
e-mails.There is no hope now of him coming back to us,but God is going
to
take him home to heaven.Then he can see his Mother & Father...

Ohh God,i hurt so much!,i wish my pain & agony would stop.I cant see him

like this.!

I especially thank Bill Connell & Bernd for calling me today.They both
are
truly saints.And Bill knows exactly how i feel.Thank you Bill,i love you

too.

I'll make a post when my Dad leaves this earth,so u all will know that
he is
on homeward trek to heaven...

David A. Digney (00' Dakota Quad Cab 3.9 R/T)
Magnum V6,42RE,3.90:1,Rancho RS5000 Shocks,Mobil 1 10w30,Ac Filter
Dynomax Super Turbo Muffler,Gutter-Guard Grill Screen,Sport Masters
Tonneau
Cover,Intense Performance Big Mouth Intake.V8 throttle body coming
later.Member of the "Dakota Mailing List" (Wisconsin District
Representative)Member of DakotaUSA (Wisconsin Chapter President)
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