Hi Danny,
wow, this sucks. I have to agree with the other post that states if she is
this controlled at 19, she probably does have some issues. this is, of
course, assuming that she is aware her mom/grandma are doing this. talk to
your girlfriend about it first. if she's not aware, see what she thinks
about this. She needs to confront them about it since they won't even give
you a chance to speak, and their behavior is affecting HER life. if she
does know what's going on & it doesn't seem abnormal to her, it isn't likely
that it will change anytime soon. If that is the case, and it bothers you,
which it obviously does, then it might be time to look for another chick.
Getting a cellphone might help, but get a pre-paid one so you don't get
stuck with the bill if things don't work out ! However, keep in mind that if
they are that overprotective, they will find another way to keep you away
and they will continue finding ways until she tells them SHE won't stand for
it. Best of luck to you.
-----Original Message-----
From: Danny L. Burrows [mailto:havenx@ksni.net]
Sent: Wednesday, September 18, 2002 6:46 PM
To: dakota-truck@dakota-truck.net
Subject: DML: girlfriend
This is off topic as hell but I need some advice either way. I am 19
years old first off, and the girl is 19
also. She still lives with her parents. She is my girlfriend, ummm she has
liked me since I was 14 or so. For some
reason her parents hate me and when I call they always tell me she is not
home. Well I had someone else call and ask
for her, and guess what, she was home. What the hell do I do about this type
of thing? The only time I get to talk
to her is when she can find a pay phone when she is away with her parents.
She has a job and works alot so that
makes it hard for us to stay in contact also. I would REALLY like it if
someone told me what to do. And before
anyone says that I should talk to her parents... I tried it and they just
hang up. The parents are her mom and
grandmother. GREAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH 3 WOAMN!!!, counting my gf, lol.
What Does Danny Do?
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