Hate to burst your bubble, but a friend of mine *IS* a psychologist with
degrees galore and she says that Jason and I seem to be an exception to a
lot of the "so called rules". Because instead of fighting, we talk and
compromise. What's the point of yelling, screaming, temper tantrums, or
throwing things? Been there done that, didn't work, just made me sick. I
prefer the rational and mature approach and it works great for us. We have
disagreements, but no screaming matches. We agree to disagree and go on. I
don't have to like everything, but I don't have to blow my cool either. He
knows when I'm in a bad mood and I know when is, and we give each other
space.
No flame intended, but those on the list that know us, can attest that we
simply just get along. We're too much alike. It would be like arguing with
myself? The most we'd disagree over is which car show to go to :) Speaking
of..... anyone going to the Spring Fling in Bramalea Ontario? There are two
again this year on the same day.... which one are we going to Bob Tom?
Norah
current: '98 Dakota Sport black 4x4 CC V8/5.2L/Auto
current: '95 Dakota Sport white 4x4 Reg Cab V6/3.9L/5spd
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: owner-dakota-truck@buffnet.net
> [mailto:owner-dakota-truck@buffnet.net]On Behalf Of Ron Kource
> Sent: Tuesday, April 25, 2000 1:11 PM
> To: dakota-truck@buffnet.net
> Subject: DML: RE: WOMEN!!
>
>
>
> HAVEN'T HAD A FIGHT IN 3 1/2 YEARS!!!!! MY GOD!!! But
> seriuosly...Dont flame
> me but I have an 99 Chevy S-10, yes I know, I Know....anyways, I
> also have a
> girlfriend of 2 1/2 years. When we first started dating the truck
> I had was
> my pride and joy show winner, custom paint job, kick A$$ stereo,
> the whole
> shootin match...she absoulutely hated car shows and being drug to
> them. But
> with my infinate wisdom (Im only 20 and was 18/19 at the time) I
> pulled the
> old "If you loved me youd go to the car shows with me"
> routine...it worked
> like a charm UNTIL she started seeing what exactly goes on at
> some car shows
> (guys ya know the Bikini contests and the umm well...lack of Bikini
> contests). Although.. I have trained her well, she now goes to the shows
> without complaint and even when we are at the shows she
> comments,"God I wish
> you would have kept your old truck!" Needless to say it has
> become a "hobby"
> for the both of us to enjoy and we just got done doing some aftermarket
> stuff to her 2000 Intrepid (quick car stock, and even quicker
> now..). As far
> as the no fighting..sorry to say this but Pyshcologists have
> proven that a
> relationship with no fighting typically doesnt last...Hey but there are
> exceptions!!
>
> Ron Kource
> Sterling Heights, MI
> Dak Content: Future Dak CC Owner (hmm what engine to get??)
> >
> >Date: Tue, 25 Apr 2000 10:48:59 -0400
> >From: "Norah Bleazard" <nbleazard@home.com>
> >Subject: DML: RE: WOMEN!!
> >
> >I love my truck, but I love my husband more and I know that
> Jason feels the
> >same way. The truck won't be there to comfort me when I'm sad, hold me,
> >love me back and be there in my old age. Yes.. my truck is very
> important,
> >but I'd give it all up and more for the love of my life.
> >
> >The problems that I keep seeing with many relationships is that
> there is no
> >commonality. Jason and I like doing the same things and working on our
> >trucks... so there is no feelings of being left out, neglected, unwanted,
> >and irrelevant. When couples get together and don't have common
> interests,
> >what is there, other than sex, to share, do, or talk about?
> Relationships
> >need a solid foundation to build on or the house will, most definitely,
> >COLLAPSE.
> >
> >I know this may sound nauseating but it's a fact... Jason is my husband,
> >lover, confidant, soul mate, and most importantly.... MY VERY
> BEST FRIEND!
> >And we've never had a fight since we met (3 1/2 years), we talk about
> >things, sacrifice equally, and compromise. :)
> >
> >Just my personal opinion.
> >
> >Dak content: our Daks love each other as well :)
> >
> >Norah (happy as happy can be)
> >current: '98 Dakota Sport black 4x4 CC V8/5.2L/Auto
> >current: '95 Dakota Sport white 4x4 Reg Cab V6/3.9L/5spd
> >RIP: '95 Dakota Sport black 4x2 CC V6/3.9L/Auto
> >previous: '93 Dakota blue 4x2 CC V6/3.9L/Auto
> >
> >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: owner-dakota-truck@buffnet.net
> > > [mailto:owner-dakota-truck@buffnet.net]On Behalf Of Kevin Lee
> > > Sent: Tuesday, April 25, 2000 7:22 AM
> > > To: Dakota Trucks
> > > Subject: DML: WOMEN!!
> > >
> > >
> > > Are there any ladies out there that don't make men choose between
> > > there truck and them? My Fiance is giving me a hard time b/c she
> > > claims that I spend more time with my truck than I do with her.
> > > Pretty soon I think I am going to have to make a choice. Well I
> > > paid more for the truck and it doesn't nag at me either!!
> > > Anyone else out there like this? What do you do to deal?
> > >
> > > Kevin
> > > Black 98 Dak Sport
> > >
> >
> >------------------------------
> >
> >End of DML Digest V4 #1923
> >**************************
> >
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