Re: RE: Have no choice now...

From: Gary Hedlin (garyhedlin@sbcglobal.net)
Date: Tue Nov 16 2004 - 04:20:17 EST


A friend of mine once told me suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary
problem. Bottom line, It's not a solution. Sure $100,000 sounds like a
helpful thing, but would she trade the love and comfort you give for it??
Plus if you look at the nitty gritty, that money may only give her MAYBEE a
year of financial security. After that, she'll be broke AND without someone
she loves. To me that is hell, and I doubt you want to put her through it.
When you compare that to where you are now....well, nobody can debate what
one is worse.

I know how you feel because I've been there. I've wanted to take that final
ride into the sunset, and came close too many times of doing it. But the
one thing that pulled me through is faith. And it doesn't have to be in
god.... Just anything! Like me, I have the deep faith that for every bad
day, there's a good day just around the bend. And if two bad days come one
after another, two good days are coming. You got to trust me on this
because if anyone knows this, its me.

Ya got to hold on. Hold on to your hopes & dreams, hold on to what you want
out of life, and for god's sake....hold on to the ones you love. Because
without love, there's nothing.

-- 

Gary Hedlin www.garyhedlin.com 2005 Dakota SLT CC 4.7 5spd 1998 Dakota Sport RC 3.9

On 11/14/04 4:14 PM, in article 20041114221324.9810.qmail@web60501.mail.yahoo.com, """A Friend""" <dodgedakotaquadcab@yahoo.com> wrote:

> > We are looking for a lawyer to represent us.Judy'd > last employer,has made it impossible for her to get a > job.I've been helping her all i can... > > We may have to face the reality,that Judy will never > get a job,and i will have to support her myself,pay > our rent/utilities myself,and our credit card bills... > > I'm very depressed now.I have a 100,000 life insurance > policy.If i didnt love Judy so much,and her me, > > i'd end it and kill myself so she wouldnt have to > worry bout it.... > > > I dont know where to turn.It is going to be a dead > "thanksgiving" & "Xmas" > > > David & Judy Digney > P.O. Box 14482 > Madison,Wi 53708 > > ===== > " A Friend" > > > > __________________________________ > Do you Yahoo!? > Check out the new Yahoo! Front Page. > www.yahoo.com > >



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